Everyone in a relationship wants to do everything possible to keep it. But there are extenuating circumstances where that’s not possible anymore, and you feel you have to break up with your partner. But don’t do it because of something shallow or a passing thought. Focus on the true reasons the relationship feels more like a job rather than something to enjoy.
Inconsistent Happiness Day After Day
There is no perfect relationship, but there is a difference between being unhappy once in a while and having it be a constant state. If you find yourself feeling unhappy almost every day, it’s time to end things.
Is the Emotional Connection Lost?
Do you feel emotionally connected to your partner anymore? Or is the connection lost? If there comes a point when you feel more like roommates rather than a couple, the smart thing to do is to break up.
Break Up Because of Different Values
If you and your partner are seeing things differently and no longer see a path in life that’s similar, maybe that should be a red flag as well. If you don’t share core values, the relationship will probably not last too long in the future.
Is There Trust in the Relationship?
If there’s no trust between two people, is there a strong core for a future relationship? If you’re constantly second-guessing your partner and do not trust they’re not doing something on the side, you should rethink the path you might have previously wanted to take together.
People Deserve to Be Celebrated
No matter what you do – wash dishes, make dinner, or even small things – you should be celebrated and appreciated by your partner. You should feel happy, not judged. A breakup becomes inevitable if your partner repeatedly doesn’t show up for you.
Wondering About a Different Future?
A sign that even a good relationship has run its course would be if you’re fantasizing constantly about a different kind of life – with someone else. Wanting a life with another person is quite different than a crush, and it’s detrimental to a relationship.
Communication Is Key
If everything appears one-sided, and you’re the only one interested in addressing any issues in the relationship, that relationship won’t last long. Both partners have to equally invest and talk about different problems.
Others Are Getting Concerned
You are the only one who should decide your relationship status. But if your friends, family, and loved ones are growing concerned about different issues, you should listen, they might have a point.
Should you go through with a breakup? If the relationship is getting to be too much, yes! It should be about mutual respect, joint values, love, and happiness!